When we start something new
that will take time, effort, and will power…we do it with the best
intentions. In the effort to achieve a
goal in fitness, health improvement, weight loss, and sports, it is common to
start out strong, only to give in to obstacles that get in the way. After a good start, we lose interest and want
to give up. How do we not give up? This is an important question because it is
easy to find reasons to quit; I don’t feel good, I need to clean my house, I
would rather read my book, or we get talking on the phone. The list goes on and on. It is easy to find a reason to quit. The hard part is finding a reason to stay
focused on the goal.
What makes a person stay the
course and keep working at their fitness goals?
It comes down to their level of commitment. Something deep inside them tells them to keep
trying. That inner voice says, “Don’t
give up; It is what you have wanted, planned for, and dreamed of.” Commitment helps you to continue working
towards your goal so that you can avoid regret later.
It is important to look into
your future and examine the outcome of the achievement of your goal. What benefits will you enjoy when you reach
the goal you have set for yourself?
Benefits are personal to each individual, but you should also envision
the consequences of not achieving your goal.
Would you have regrets? Will it
result in a set-back that will take time and harder work in the future to
recommit and start over?
Here are some ideas that have
helped me and others I have worked with to achieve their goals;
1.
Put your
goal(s) in writing, and post them somewhere that you will see them and be
reminded of them as you go throughout each day.
Include the daily (or ongoing) steps needed to reach your goal.
2.
Tell someone
whom you trust about your goal. This
will give you the needed support in asking how you are doing in the daily steps
towards your goal.
3.
Take it slow!
If you start off too fast or take on too much, you may start to feel
overwhelmed and want to quit.
4.
Give yourself
a break! You are not perfect, so it is
ok to make mistakes. Just get back up
and continue on with your daily plan.
5.
Look at each
day as a new day! New beginning! Make this day better than yesterday.
Good fortune to all of you as you
start out on your new goals!
Remember the Power is With-In YOU!!!